Tips for Fellows to get the most out of the Mentorship Relationship

Mentorship can have many definitions and interpretations. A commonly accepted definition of mentorship is the personal developmental relationship in which a more experienced or more knowledgeable person helps to guide a less experienced or less knowledgeable person.

The mentoring process seeks to develop an individual as a whole, through a learning relationship that integrates and balances all aspects of an individual into the development process. The learning process is typically driven by the mentee’s development goals and should be agreed upon mutually by both mentor and mentee at the beginning of the relationship.

Since there are many ways to engage in a mentorship relationship, here are a few tips to help you get the most out of your mentorship relationship right from the start:

Manage Expectations

Mentors and mentees often enter the relationship with expectations of each other that may be hidden and not discussed. Here are some helpful hints to create openness and prevent disappointment:

Come Prepared

As a mentee you are expected to actively engage in the learning relationship by bringing your experiences, questions, surprises, and challenges for exploration, discussion, and learning. Here are some tips to help you prepare for, and best engage in this new relationship:

Be Open

Take the time to get to know each other, and build a solid foundation for your relationship. This can be done by sharing personal backgrounds and histories, and anecdotes about your lives. It can feel daunting to build a very personal relationship with your new mentor when no prior history exists. Remember to be open to the experience, and that communication is key to every meaningful relationship.

Be Grateful

Perhaps most importantly, remember to enjoy this mentorship experience. Mentorship has the power to change lives, and this relationship could be an incredibly valuable experience for you. Remember to let your mentor know that you appreciate them taking the time to support you in your journey and don’t be afraid to say thank you!